How to Hold and Use Chopsticks: A Beginner’s Guide

Feb 3, 2025by Namiko Chen

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How to Hold Chopsticks: Step-by-Step

hand holding single chopstick pointing down

hand holding single chopstick pointing up

Hold the top chopstick like a pencil—rest it between your thumb and index finger, supported by your middle finger. You should be able to move it up and down easily.
To test flexibility as you learn how to hold chopsticks, gently tilt the chopstick up and down. For added stability, you can use your other hand to hold down your pinky and ring fingers as you practice.

hand holding a pair of chopsticks with tip away from each other

Insert the bottom chopstick so that it rests between the base of your thumb and the tip of your ring finger. This chopstick stays still and acts as the anchor.

hand holding a pair of chopsticks with tips away from each other

hand holding a pair of chopsticks with tips touching

Make sure the tips of both chopsticks are evenly aligned and pointing straight forward.
A balanced grip is key when learning how to hold chopsticks properly.
Use your index and middle fingers to move the top chopstick up and down while keeping the bottom one stationary. Practice until the movement feels natural.
With a little practice, you’ll be able to pick up food by applying gentle pressure with the top chopstick. From grains of rice to slippery noodles, chopstick confidence comes with time!

Learning how to hold chopsticks will take some practice, but don’t worry—no one will fault you if your technique is less than perfect.

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FAQs about Japanese Chopsticks

Why is it important to learn how to hold chopsticks properly?

Proper technique improves control and comfort, making it easier to pick up food neatly. It’s also seen as good etiquette, especially when dining in Japan or other Asian countries.

Is it rude to hold chopsticks the wrong way?

While it’s not necessarily rude, using chopsticks incorrectly can make eating more difficult and may draw attention in formal settings. Learning the right grip is a sign of respect and appreciation for the culture.